December has arrived and that means that 2012 will soon be over. Adam has been “trespassing” all around the world lately and currently finds himself in China and will wrap up his 2012 with a New Years Eve concert in Bali. But before the year ends with a bang there is plenty to do on his home turf. He heads to NY for “Cyndi Lauper and Friends” and a TV appearance, then hops across country for a radio event and a little “Diva” hosting thang.
A lot of holiday cheer to look forward to!

Choosing a photo for the monthly threads is never easy. However, it’s his most recent look that is getting attention. Since it may not last long, I thought that most of you would enjoy the look from the Mnet Awards – fierce, defiant, always unpredictable Adam.

Enjoy the chat! Happy Holidays!

 

2,591 Responses to December 2012 Chat

  1. ultimathule says:

    Agree with Miss Chaos over at MJ’s about an Adam/Kelly duet – would much prefer Jordin or one of the others. Find Kelly good in a certain range, but really unpleasant when she goes high and loud. So perky and cutesy, too – Mary Tyler Moore-type. Rather have him with someone sexier, like Aurea.

  2. asifclueless says:

    josephine … That’s it. That’s what been bothering me.
    I know. I’m over sensitive. And when I saw photos of those pretty boys in South Africa. Oh ..O !!!
    Well, I think too much. But can’t stop crying right now. Frown

    Gosh, I’m too much invested. May need a break.

  3. Kradamour says:

    why didn’t he take Sauli to NY for a few days–he wasn’t that busy

    Josephine, that may be part of the issue…the idea that we would think “why didn’t he just take Sauli with him” implies that he is Adam’s to take. Or leave. And that somehow Sauli’s schedule is less important than Adam’s.
    When he is with Adam, he is merely an appendage in many eyes. (no matter how loved an appendage)
    To be his own person, he has to be apart. Sauli is successful in his own world, but not at Adam’s level here.

    The house…maybe it is also that Sauli doesn’t feel comfortable being “kept” to that degree. I think it is true that he could not afford that house, or his half of it. Maybe the guys are trying to balance things.

    I remember an interview with a marriage counselor who specializes in same-sex “marriages” (whether legal or not) and his point was that gay men have a double whammy on a long-term relationship: relationships are always hard to maintain, and here you have two spouses with testosterone.

    I wonder also if it puts some stress on the relationship when Adam is repeatedly asked if he is thinking about marriage and he always emphatically – and publicly – says no.

    Who knows…I definitely don’t.
    Just throwing out some ideas.

    Hoping for the best for them, whatever that turns out to be. It seems that both of them are committed to the idea of a relationship, and if there is any stress at the moment, where there is a will there is a way.
    Rose

  4. josephine says:

    It is easy to observe and contemplate what you see but having had some beautiful relationships in my life and having to move on, I just feel that something is amiss—sometimes you become so invested in someone,,,,you may be mistaken——I only wish happiness and success for our Adam, so be it!!!!!! Hug Left Hug Right

  5. josephine says:

    Just to add to my public thoughts, I was so touched by Adam’s comments about not ever considering “marriage” as an option in his life being as he was a “gay man.” I never thought of it that way and it really made me sad but I can understand–he touches my heart so many times—-

  6. ultimathule says:

    Adam’s calendar appears to be filling up with 2013 dates all over the world – can’t imagine Sauli wanting to show up at all these places like some camp follower – would think he’ll be doing his own thing as he’s always intimated. They’re both good guys – sure they’ll arrange things for the convenience of each. Can’t imagine they’ll ever be at odds with each other – the clash in Finland last year may have brought out any lingering problems and thus resolved them.

    Think they’ll both be fine.

  7. riskylady says:

    Agree with ultima, I don’t think Sauli wants to have the image of a “groupie” following Adam around. He said things in his Fault magazine interview that gave me that impression.
    There is so much we don’t know, but we do know that Sauli will spend Christmas here, and that he will be visiting Finland sometime early next year. After the 16th, Adam’s schedule is clean except for NYE in Bali (I do think he would take Sauli there, maybe stay a few days.) January right now is empty – maybe it’s for moving out of the house. Who knows when the Vietnam and possible Jakarta concerts would be – Feb, just before Korea?
    I also think – guess – the hate to Sauli may have bothered Adam, and maybe that is why we are seeing very little of them together, and expressionless. And the constant, annoying adommy drumroll. One of my Twitter followers tried to tell me the other day that Adam would soon kiss Tommy again on stage. Geez – they are really delusional.
    Separations are hard, but they had to have known that would be a constant.
    Hell, we don’t even know if Adam will stay in the US. Or in California. He said he would like to live in NY, has also said he would like London.
    I do think though, that the similarities they share in background, likes, family, are special enough that both would want to keep the relationship. Hope so, anyway.
    ETA: Btw, in his latest blog/advent calendar posted on the 6th, Sauli said he would skip a couple of doors because he wouldn’t have access to a computer on the weekend, so maybe he did join Adam in NY for the weekend. but kept out of signt.

  8. turquoisewaters says:

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  9. Kradamour says:

    Well, let’s not read too much into some random pap pix of a couple of men who are not necessarily looking exuberant and in love.
    I read so many comments under photos that peeps write about them: Oh they are so much in love! Oh, this will be eternal! Oh, this is a forever relationship! Oh, they are perfect for each other! etc.etc.etc.gag.gag.gag…
    On the other hand, Sauli is a beard for Tommy.
    etc.etc.etc.gag.gag.gag
    Or whatever.
    In persepctive:
    Adam and Sauli have been an item for two years. Sauli has been embraced by Adam’s family, and vice-versa.
    They share many interests and much recent history and have something of a common background in reality tv.
    Adam has said numerous times that he isn’t thinking marriage.
    Adam has said numerous times that he is in a great relationship.
    Both Sauli and Adam have expressed the desire for a lasting relationship.
    There is at least something of a language barrier.
    Sauli is far from home and his family, but has said that he loves LA and the United States.
    They have matching oofta tattoos.
    They dress alike.
    Each is the other’s stated “type”.
    Sauli has been good for Adam in a variety of ways to do with health and fitness.
    Adam has introduced Sauli to LA.
    There is significant difference in their financial affairs. (this is tricky for any couple)
    The press is intrusive and creates stress when they go out.
    Sauli must have met many of Adam’s brief “exes”; he is nobody’s fool.
    And he is not a part of the glamily, although they seem to be welcoming to him. Adam is part of a tight clique when he is performing and there is no way for Sauli to be a real part of that.
    Adam is 30 and conscious of coming to the end of his youth; he will soon be 31.
    Sauli is trying a lot of different projects and seems to be making his way in the world, even if not at Adam’s level. He doesn’t seem to have a particular talent, but is hardworking and interested in a number of things.
    Sauli is very positive – I can still remember the aura I felt when he passed by me at Ste Agathe. He seems to actively seek out ways to stay happy and has a sunny personality. Seems to be happy in his skin.
    Adam is more complex, by his own admission, and can chew on things and fret. He has self-image issues.
    (I thought that it was interesting in the magazine article above that Adam said it was hard to get dressed, he knew he would be watched and judged, or something like that, that men are judged just as much as women are for their appearance.)
    Both have a great sense of humor, and that humor seems to be compatible. They are both quick-witted.
    Again, though, the language barrier.

    I think that sums up a lot of what we know about Adam, Sauli, and Adam/Sauli.
    I wish them the best.
    But both are still young, and if this doesn’t work out, they seem to have learned a lot from each other and from the relationship, and will carry that knowledge into the next one and build on it.
    Remember that for Adam, this is only his second “real” relationship. He has said that in love, he is more like 20 than 30. It would not be too bizarre for him to think that he perhaps has more to learn/explore about love and relationships.
    My two cents, for what they are worth. Maybe nothing. Just some thoughts.
    G’nite, peeps! Sweet Sauli dreams!
    Yawn

  10. jlurksacto says:
  11. ultimathule says:

    Over at the Wendy Williams site – not too happy about the three-year-old vids and comments she’s got there about the AMA’s and a rumored make-up line. Is that all she knows about him? Hope for more than that disappointing (for me) interview with Matt the Blue Duck guy.

    Have never watched (that I remember) either Williams or O’Brien – so don’t know what to expect. Hope they’re up to date on his career.

  12. ultimathule says:

    I’m all for silver pants – brighten anyone’s day.

  13. ultimathule says:

    Lol – the expression on his face at :32-:33 in the second vid – cracked me up – just so funny.

  14. ultimathule says:

    Am I gonna be annoyed by the Wendy show? From the vids over there she looks annoying. Wish these people would check with us first.

  15. ultimathule says:

    Would love a GIF of that :32-:33 action.

    Like old-time burlesque – he’d be great at that, too.

  16. ultimathule says:

    Well, off to read the WaPo Business Section – interesting article on the rise of natural gas – bye, bye, Saudi Arabia (I hope).

  17. LadyNorth says:

    What’s the Wendy Williams show like, how big it is? Talk show? I really don’t understand why the AMA thing still comes – Adam has done so much after that. So maybe there are peeps who haven’t seen him anywhere after that… I hope The Diva’s changes it. I’m really looking forward to it! Wanna see Adam hosting Smile

    About Adam and Sauli – we really don’t know what the situation is. I have noticed there’s not so much love shown in public as before. But can’t say is it just the normal phase in a longer relationship or something else. I am sad if they separate because I think they fit each other very well and it’s not easy to find a true relationship if you are a celebrity – but it’s their life and they have their own reasons whatever they do. On the road/jet lag life is definitely not easy for relationships Frown And Sauli doesn’t seem a toy boy type who can be taken anywhere anytime (and he got a lot of shit for being in Japan in August). But we will see how things go, hoping the best and happiness for both of them!

  18. LadyNorth says:

    Oh and hi ulti!

    You having a lonely conversation here Frown? I am sorry also I have to go, getting back later!

  19. rs says:

    I just read the recent posts where people are speculating about an imminent Adam-Sauli break-up. Why? Because of a few photos without PDAs, because Sauli didn’t go with Adam to New York? When I saw those photos from LA the first thing that struck me was that Sauli was wearing Adam’s boots! Of course he would need a different size but it just showed me how close they are becoming. The worst possible thing for a celebrity relationship is speculation as to it’s future, so I will leave it to them to decide it in private. Sorry but all the discussion just makes me feel like I am treading someplace where I don’t belong. I hope I am not insulting anyone by saying this, I know that everything written here is written from love.

  20. ultimathule says:

    Just turned on O’Brien – has Adam been on yet?

  21. cwm says:

    I totally agree, rs. Adam and Sauli always rein in the smiles and the PDAs around the paps; that’s nothing new. The thing that strikes me most in those pap pics is how much alike they look! Whether or not Sauli goes with Adam on various trips means nothing; they have their own reasons for Sauli going or not going. And the house? Well, we know nothing, but there could be a lot of reasons for moving out of the house (altho it’s a bit of a bummer because we know how much Adam loves it). The danger is that speculation starts about the reasons for leaving that house, and then the speculation begins to take on a life of its own, and suddenly, Adam and Sauli are on the verge of breaking up? It’s way too easy to make false assumptions about things about which we have very little information.
    Let’s keep in mind that just a couple of days ago, Sauli posted on his blog “my siippa is home now and life is smiling.” Big Smile

  22. HK fan says:

    screencap from CNN
    http://twitpic.com/bkr10r

    I kind of agree rs, I don’t think much can be made of these photos, maybe they just weren’t in the mood for having pics snapped. I must admit I don’t walk down the street smiling away….people who pass me probably think I look miserable too…

    re the house. Its very normal for people in HK to move very 2 years. Most people rent, leases are for 2 years, and its very common for landlords to hike the rents up, so you either pay up or move. Maybe Adam has just decided that the time is right to buy rather than paying out 10k a month on rent.

  23. ultimathule says:

    Don’t think he’s been on yet.

  24. HK fan says:

    AXN just advertised The voice (finale I think) and had Adams NCOE playing in the background, very clearly though….i came straight on here to tell you, so excitingSmile

  25. ultimathule says:

    He was incredible – pretty full Melvin. But so handsome. And his ease, fluidity, sense of humor, intelligence – all came through. The man belongs on the screen – the bigger, the better.

    Posted this over there, too.

  26. ultimathule says:

    What do you think that means, HK fan?

  27. Ron says:

    Good Morning!

    Adam looked fierce on CNN! Appeared to be in full performance mode with the heavy eyeliner. Pleasant interview. As usual, he was well spoken and looked completely at ease.

    Good exposure for him!

  28. eywflyer says:

    I hope this is a mix-up or technical error of some sort – but AO is currently unavailable, when I try to go there I’m directed to a screen stating that the domain expired on 12/9/2012. According to twitter many others have seen the same problem this morning.

    Either someone at RCA screwed up and forgot to renew the site, or it’s very bad news for Adam regarding his future with RCA. Hope we find out which soon.

  29. ultimathule says:

    The lease and then AO – hmmm

  30. loveroftalent says:

    I didn’t know there was speculation going on about Adam and Sauli…I really hope everything is fine with them…And most likely they are fine and we worry because we all love Adam so much…

  31. rs says:
  32. loveroftalent says:

    Adam was amazing on CNN…He looke gorgeous,at ease and his personality shined through…

  33. Oksana2000 says:

    I just logged on AO. No problem.Maybe the server was down?

  34. rs says:

    Adam’s Fiasco Issue is called “The Obsession Issue”!

    COVER Fiasco Magazine #23 The Obsession Issue Feat. Adam Lambert,Ian McKellen,Jimmy Beauquesne, Alex&Alexander Ferrario http://beforeyoukillusall.blogspot.com/2012/12/cover-fiasco-magazine-23-obsession.html?spref=tw

  35. loveroftalent says:

    @Oksana2000Thanks for posting that…I was feeling so sad…Now I can go Christmas shopping happy..

    We all worry about Adam because we all love him so much..It’s amazing the way he has affected our lives…

  36. eywflyer says:

    Oksana, I definitely can’t get onto the site from here in the US. I’m running a series of webpage tests from various servers around the world now to try and figure out what has happened.

  37. asifclueless says:

    Good morning ALL,

    This Yahoo OMG! interview video is new to me.
    Adam is gorgeous and articulate and diplomatic. Grin

    Adam Lambert on TV talent shows

    http://uk.omg.yahoo.com/gossip/110–pop/adam-lambert-gets-drastic-makeover-reveals–men-are-just-as-worried-as-women-about-looking-good-121702084.html

  38. LadyNorth says:

    Adam arriving to CNN.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rktem4Y8PZ4&feature=youtu.be

    I managed to arrive home right on time to see the stream Smile He looked fine and sounded fine! But CNN didn’t seem to know he has already performed with Queen…

  39. asifclueless says:

    Adam was so great on CNN.
    More and more sscreen time please. He belongs there.

    In Love

  40. Oksana2000 says:

    Eywflyer, I dunno, I had no problems opening AO and comment sections has some references to Adam CNN appearance, so other peeps had no problem with accessing.
    All is well in Bertlandia.

  41. ultimathule says:

    Looks like there’s another show at 12:30 on NBC?

  42. bridgette12 says:

    Agree with Miss Chaos over at MJ’s about an Adam/Kelly duet – would much prefer Jordin or one of the others. Find Kelly good in a certain range, but really unpleasant when she goes high and loud. So perky and cutesy, too – Mary Tyler Moore-type. Rather have him with someone sexier, like Aurea.

    I would much rather Adam sing with one of the best singers in the business, than one of those wannabes. He needs someone who can hang with him and push his creativity. He don’t need to perform with one of the singers that he has to prop up and not shine himself. I like Jordin, but she’s boring and lack stage presence.

  43. Oksana2000 says:

    More important question.HOW CAN I GET FIASCO MAGAZINE PRINT EDITION?????

    And my Chanukach prayer is for Melvin to disappear before Divas.

  44. eywflyer says:

    Can’t get onto the AO site from a UK server either. It’s possible that there is some tech glitch where some parts of the world can access and others not, or those still able to access the site may have internet service providers which have not refreshed their DNS recently.

    Hopefully this will be fixed later today, and is not a bad scenario.

  45. asifclueless says:

    Claudia ‏@GlamFanNation

    Adam on my TEEEVEEEE!!!! http://pic.twitter.com/5JS2H3m6

    Do you think she is excited? Wink

  46. LadyNorth says:
  47. asifclueless says:

    adamlambert

    About to make my debut on @WendyWilliams!!!

  48. Oksana2000 says:

    Eywflyer,my service provider is Time Warner Cable, I have no idea how up to date they are, but they are pretty big on the East Coast(I think).

    I’m Not crazy about Wendy Williams but I’ll put up with her for Adam’s sake. Hope the interview is good.

  49. asifclueless says:

    Thanks …LadyNorth .. for the video.

    Love his laugh and giggles. It’s good to start the morning.

  50. LadyNorth says:

    Hi asif!

    I replaced it with the better quality vid that @Scorpiobert just added. You can have a new watch with that Smile

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